The double-edged sword of success

We hear sayings over and over again without really considering what they even mean or, better yet, why they’re repeated. “Success is a double-edged sword” is one that comes to mind. Obviously, the positive side of accomplishment is that you’ve reached certain goals, defeated challenging obstacles, and are recognized as someone who gets things done. But what’s the downside?

While the blade of success does cut in the ways described above, it has that second sharp edge that slices in an equal and opposite direction. If you’ve shown you can handle one set of goals, life almost always puts a new set in front of you. The previous obstacles were only a stepping stone to the new barriers set in your path. And if you are known as the person who gets things done, guess what? Those who need things done are going to come knocking at your door more frequently than ever.

Whether you’re a hot rod builder or a bike builder, an artist or a tradesman running your own business, I’ve found that the second slice is what really drives you. You’re never satisfied with what you’ve done; you’re always working toward what’s next.

On the surface that drive is something we all admire. But the reality is that it creates a vicious cycle, a merry-go-round that spins faster and faster until you’re pinned to the bar and are unable to get off. I’m not speaking from the position of a guy who has it figured out. I’m on that playground carousel, too, spinning as quickly as anyone.

Work hard to get an opportunity; get opportunity; work hard to capitalize on opportunity. The reward is a chance to work hard towards the next opportunity. Sound familiar?

The most driven people I know are never content. I’ll throw myself into that pool; I’m never content. We always think that just over the horizon is that place where our hard work pays off. We’ll take our foot off the pedal, put the car of life on cruise control (or auto-pilot, soon?), and enjoy the fruits of our labor. Enjoy life.

Instead we focus on the next horizon. There’s always another horizon.

Maybe that’s actually my next challenge, to figure out how to engage cruise control. I’m not so confident I’ll figure it out. I’m not sure I even want to figure it out. Perhaps I don’t. Y’all have seen “Vanishing Point,” yeah?

Look for me going wide open throttle until the end.

Josh Welton and the Viper ACR he took on a 5,000 mile road trip.
Photo courtesy of Brown Dog Welding.